Our Love : A Year Ago

Aniq: 3 month

Bulan nih aniq ambil injection kt klinik biasa je..kene charge RM85..sbb ibu dh start keje,dan tade mase nk tnggu lama2 kt K.K tuh..huhu..kalau time pregnant dlu takpe la lagi sbb sorang2 je, ni dh bwk aniq..dgn ramai org nye..sian plak kt aniq..aniq's current weight is 5.8kgs

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suka sgt tgk muka aniq time tido...buat jiwa tenang...

Aniq Fall In Love With AVENT

I rasa bersalah sgt sbb tak ajar aniq minum guna bottle dr awal..

dh masuk 3bulan baru nk guna..mana la tak terkejut dier..sian anak ibu..

even kalau u all tak kerja dan mmg fully breastfeed kt anak

korang kene gak pump n bg susu ngn bottle once in a while

sbb sebarang kemungkinan mungkin berlaku

kita ada hal or sakit ke (yg tak boleh menyusukan anak)

tak ke haru kalo dier taknak minum susu..

Akak babysitter aniq tu ckp teat botol tu pn antara satu sbb gak

aniq selalu terlepas hisap teat nya..tu yg wt dier ngamuk..

ingatkan gune breastflow bottle boleh mimic nipples kita

tah..mybe ikut baby gak kot..

lgpun aniq tak ajar awal (ahh,salahkan diri sendri lg..tsk..tsk)

Setelah I sedih tgk aniq gigih minum susu botol

I cuba pinjam anak buah I nye bottle tgk aniq suka ke tak

at first mmg dier tolak2 la..sbb still kurang pandai nak guna..first time la katekan

kemudian I tgk dier dh mula menghisap dgn bersungguh

dan teats nye pun tak terlepas mcm brand sebelum ni

so, I decide terus gi carik Avent Bottle kt baby shop area Bukit Indah, JB

Memula I masuk satu corner lot shop nih..nama taktau

besa kot..siap 2 tingkat..tp diorg takde stock..

pastu gi Anakku..tp Avent jenis PP Feeding Bottle (white color)

yang ni tak BPA Free tau..dgr Avent dah tarik balik this product

At last jumpa gak kt Babe Home

last pack plak tuh..jenis PES (honey coloured tint)

harga asal RM79..tp sbb I member  dpt 10% discount

jadila RM71...utk 2 bottle..kira sebotol RM35

pehh..aniq nk botol susu mahal..huhuk..

budak skarang..(geleng-geleng kepala)

Aniq pakai newborn teat dlu..baru belajar :)

Ni hah kotaknya..amek gmba dlu sblm dicampak dlm dustbin :p

Aniq in action...ibu so proud of you my dear :)

Lalala..Hidup Harus Kerja

Memulakan kerja selepas 3 bulan bercinta..

bercinta dengan si kecil pengarang jantung hati

rindu saat berguling-guling ngn aniq sepanjang hari

cium pipi kepala tangan kaki dia tak henti-henti

tido smpai tengah hari

ujung bulan gi atm amik gaji

haiihhhhh....

how i wish i cud quit my job

banyak la cantek

sape nk byr utang!

Increase Milk Supply Perhaps :)

pic from mr google ler

Ptg td I follow encik hubby masuk pharmacy kt perling...hajat hati nk beli Dr.'s Choice Fenugreek Chocolate Mix..sekali nan ado plak kt situ..pharmacist tu suggest soh carik kt watson..tgh i dukung aniq cumil, auntie yg keje situ geram kt aniq...tanya psal aniq itu ini..then she recommend this product sbb aniq breastfeed..actually supplement nih dh bleh start makan since merancang kehamilan lagi..lengkap semua ada..xpyah susah amik neurogain pb+obimin+folic acid sume tuh..lengkap jer..so,utk kawan2 yang mls nk mkn pil bebanyak..product nih the best option! ;)

So, for lactating mother like me..bleh la i provide the best milk for my baby..even makan tak berjaga sangat..hopefully all essential ingredients dlm product nih dpt membantu..insyallah.

Mereka Buat Saya Sedih

Sebulan lagi encik hubby akan mula berjauhan dgn kami..sedih..

Tapi lebih sedih bila aniq nanges sedu-sedu taknak minum susu botol..

Huawaa..tsk..tsk T_T

alahai..chenta ♥

Rezeki Selepas Kahwin Itu PASTI!

Wahh..topic nk bold..*lempang lelaju kang*

btul korang..direct jer I tulih tajuk cenggitu..

bukan iktibar dari kisah rasul junjungan

tapi dari pengalaman sendiri..

meh sini nk story..(takde niat nk riak sikit pon)

just nk kongsi..

hope dapat jadi kenangan sendiri dikemudian hari

Lagi sepuluh hari genap perkahwinan I ngn chenta hati setahun

ALHAMDULILLAH...

dari sekecil kecil bende smpai sebesar besar rezeki Allah dh beri

semua I akan kumpul dalam ingatan buat muhasabah diri

rezeki Allah beri tak penah putus..

walaupun hambanya ini kadang-kadang lari

dari landasan yang hakiki

Kalau korang nak tau..(even parents I pn tak tau nih..huhu)

masa majlis kahwin I last year..encik hubby terus berhenti kerja

kerjanya time tu sub-contractor kt MMHE jer..nk cuti kahwin pn berkira..

susah sket nk mntk cuti..cuti lebih sket kompem kne benti..

mkn gaji hari..kwsp pn tade..percayalah..sbb nk kahwin punye psal,terus la dier resign keje

sadis ek cenggitu..huhu

So..time tu bergantung la kami dgn duit gaji I je..

lepas la mkn 2org ngn sewa rumah..nasib baik encik hubby dh beli set blk tdo sebelum ktorg kawin

sbb i sewa rumah nih sorang2 sebulan sebelum majlis ktorg..

kalau tak mau tdo tilam bujang jer alas comforter mahal(adiah kawin)..huhu

dengan hadiah kawin yg mostly brg dapur..dpt gak la berisi perut nih dengan masakkan yg ala kadar

mmg takde apa pn kt umah bujang nih..saving I mmg takdelah,bru kerja 2bln kot..sume dh perabih kt hantaran n persiapan kawin..encik hubby pn sama..saving zero terus..hantaran I pn bukan nye dpt kt I blk..parents I ambil semua utk cover duit kenduri la..(dh I pn majlis sesen tak kluar..so,I tak kesah la..huhu)

kiranya we all start from zero tau!..yilekk..

duit salam kaut(org perak panggil utk duit yg dapat time bersanding kt pelamin) wt beli meja mkn kt ikea harga RM199..ngn meja dapur gas..tu jela harta kitorang

tv plak encik hubby amik tv lama besar gedabak dr rumah dier(even now,we still pkai tv nih)

tp barang dapur mmg tiptop la..sume adiah kawin

dr microwave smpai ke periuk belanga sume cukup lengkap(thanks kawan2 utk hadiah kalian)

Dekat 2bulan lebih la encik hubby jd suri rumah sepenuh masa..mmg masa tuh ada la sket pressure kt bini nyer nih..tp alhamdulillah, tak penah la ktorg berlapar tak mkn..kn Allah dh janji..rezeki tu tetap ada.. ;)

akhirnya encik hubby dpt kerja main worker kt MMHE..dr pkai baju merah dh tuka kaler biru..

dh upgrade la maksudnya..gaji pn lebih baik dr sebelumnya..

time tu baru la dpt beli brg rumah sikit2..

ada la sofa, fridge ngn mesin basuh..bende2 basic yang wajib kne ada kn..

we all tak pilih fridge atau mesin basuh yg kecil(bukan sbb nk bangga ek)..

tp sbb pikir long term..nanti kene upgrade jugak..so,beli yang sederhana adalah pilihan terbaik

(bukan lah fridge gedabak 2 pintu dan mesin basuh 15kg okey..)

Pas i confirm pregnant..we all dh start panggil rezeki anak kn..

masa nih cm obvious la..encik hubby yg handphonenya tak berapa ok(asik mampus jer) dpt hp ganti..dier tak beli pn..kawan nye bagi sbb kemera dh rosak..tp bila encik hubby gi betulkan, ok dh la..pastu bleh plak dpt beli xbox half price..ada org tolak..dan set golf for free dr pakteh I..

nmpk cm pelik2 jer bende yg encik hubby dpt kn..tula psal..mmg I pregnant..tp dier yg mengidam memacam..kunun nk mengisi masa lapang selain memancing(kn I preggy,so dier tak bleh g mancing)..hurm,skang tersadai jer bende2 tuh..hobi dier time i pregnant jer..dh bersalin nih,tak nak plak main..macam2~

Tu yang bende simple2 la..for me, a big move dgn kereta baru..kereta lama hanya pinjaman..

dh bagi adik pakai la..nama pn pinjam dr mak ayah..tp bukan dpt big car la..

cume kereta kecil yang mampu..alhamdulillah..janji dpt angkut kami anak beranak balik kampung..duit minyak pun takdelah terasa sgt sbb pkai kereta kecik..yela, nama pn baru nk mulakan keluarga..kereta encik hubby still ada..tp pemakan minyak satria nya tuh..tak larat nk blk kg ngn keta tu..

Tahun 2010 juga we all dpt berjumpa dengan sebuah rumah idaman hati..

Buat masa nih lom siap lagi la..progress dlm 50% kata pemaju..mmg tarikh awl dapat masuk pn awal 2012..harap dpt masuk lebih awal..yela,dpt jimat sket..sbb encik hubby dah start bayar housing loan..so,agak rugi la kne bayar sewa rumah sekali..nanti dh masuk rumah yg lebih selesa..jemput la semua ke jb ek..penginapan percuma ;)

Kami ambil langkah besar ini sbb harga rumah yang semakin meningkat dr setahun ke setahun..lebih2 lagi area jb ni kn..pemaju pn ada ckp..harga rumah di jb tinggi sbb pemaju target singapore buyer..singaporean hanya boleh beli rumah lebih 500k..so that..teres sederhana biasa paling koman pn dh smpai 400k (tgk land area)..sbb corner lot diorg nk naikkan smpai 500k..ni berdasarkn apa yg pemaju I ckp la..

So, since our gov dh buat SRP(skim rumah pertamaku)..cecepat la kawan2 semua tangkap memane rumah yg berkenan di hati..beli pada usia muda ni bagus..dan go for professional banker yang sanggup terangkan kt korang satu2 psal housing loan yang macam-macam jenis skarang nih..kalau nk pergi semua bank pun..go on..lantak la banker tu nk kate kite slow ke..study betul-betul..be wiser ;)

Ingat..kereta itu liabiliti..rumah itu aset! :)

Back at my hometown..encik hubby ade la wt projek sket ngn ayah I..untuk bekalan masa depan..tapi makan masa bertahun la jugak hasilnya..takpe,orang tua2 kata tak rugi kalau berbudi pada tanah kn..insyallah kalau rezeki ada dan umur panjang,dpt la sama-sama merasa..

Baru tadi encik hubby dapat mesej dr ejen nya tentang interview yang dihadirinya baru-baru ni berjaya..company baru sedang dalam proses menyediakan surat hitam putih..semoga encik hubby berjaya tukar ke company o&g idaman hati dier since dier blaja dulu..amin..happy sangat bila impian encik hubby tertunai..walaupn isterinya bakal kene tinggal..tp,takpa..isteri nya tough! Huargghh..sob..sob (cdeh tau sbnrnye..Allah je tahu)

Tu jelah kot nk story..ampun la kalau bosan yer..lebih mcm luahan perasaan je nih..tak tau la cmne nk cope with life bila encik hubby jauh nanti..kalau tade aral melintang,mungkin perancangan nk smbung belajar akan mula sem baru nanti..mnta dipermudahkan semua ya kawan2..

Hurmm..nasib baik ader pengarang jantung aniq jadi peneman di kala sunyi..hadapi hidup dengan sabar..the best is yet to come, insyallah..

Cantik jer Allah dah aturkan perjalanan untuk kita kn..walaupun baru setahun umur perkahwinan kami, tapi banyak dah rezeki yang Allah limpahi..betul la apa yang di janji..

Rase2 kalo we all belum kawin nih..bleh ke smpai sejauh ini?..wallahualam.


Marry those among you who are single, or the virtuous ones among yourselves, male or female: if they are in poverty, Allah will give them means out of His grace: for Allah encompasseth all, and he knoweth all things. (An-Nur :32)

Tips : Nk Beli Diapers Baby

I rase kt mane2 blog psal parenting bersepah la tips2 beli nih..tips2 pkai tuh..
Kalau post nih tak membantu..abaikan ajer..
I just nk share pengalaman yg ada jer..walaupun bru 2 bulan ada anak..
mana nk sama ngn org dh beranak 2..tol tak..huhu
harap sedikit tak banyak..dapat tolong
sharing is caring yaa ^_~
Ok la...stop membebel please.. :p

Semua org tau..nowadays org sebuk dok environment friendly kn..kalo u all nk sv the earth..tiru la mcm saya ;)


Skang bnyk dah cloth diapers (CD) di pasaran..dr yang mahal smpai la cap ayam 'china made'..I pun tak terkecuali nk menggediks beli...biase la..online shopping,mne bleh tahan nafsu tgk bende2 cumils tuh..jadi dengan azam berkobar-kobar kununnyer nk pakai CD jer kt aniq..huhuk..I pn bli la CD brand Babyland kt cni..dh tentu la I pilih yang paling murah kn..tak agak2..sepuluh keping I rembat..huhu (nk salahkan nafsu tym pregnant bleh :p..)..dahla tanak tgk review pun dulu..apsal la cenggitu aku time tuh ek -_-' ...So,kalau la korg mmg teringin nk beli CD nih..bleh la tgk review kt cni (baru terjumpa blog senior I time sekolah nih)..ni CD yang biasa jual kt tenet la..kalau brand memahal yang lain,korg google lah ek..be a wise consumer.

Tapi kalau korg big M cam I gak..opt for disposable diapers jela (mcm la bleh dispos terus...mau amik masa 10tahun kot..kesian bumi kn..uhuk2)..

Nk beli berapa packs ek utk new born?

Ok..utk bakal ibu2 bapak2..dengar sini nasihat pakar..cewahh..time I pregnant tuh, MamyPoko tgh sale kt carefour that time..Newborn 52 keping dpt arge RM31 kot tak silap..jgn ragu2 dan segan..we all rembat 3 packs..cukup 3 tau..sila jgn lebih..(apply utk anak yg berat time lahir lebih 3kgs)..seminggu baby korang akan guna 1 pack..iyer, percayalah!..haha..poo poo machine btul..pas NB size tu abis..toksah la dok gedik bli lagi NB..(nti jd cm haku..gigih nk abeskn diapers tu even dh ketat kt aniq..membazir -_-')..abes je,trus beli size S okey..kalau pakai brand lain I tak bleh nk suggest size per..sbb tak pakai kan..tp utk NB brand Drypers cm kecik sket compare ngn NB MamyPoko..I compare ngn sample yg dpt kt spital..

Eh..tadi beli CD..apsal pakai Disposable Diapers?

Haha..dgr dlu penjelasan bleh. Masa berpantang sebulan pertama tu,jgn la harap nk pkai CD yg fancy2 n cumil2 tuh..ko ngn sakit lagi..anak menangis lagi..rajin plak nk hadap basuh sidai CD tu..lebih2 berpantang kt umah mum in law..takkan nk soh mil jirus2 taik baby tu kn..bnyk lagi kje lain dier nk buat..pas abes berpantang 40 hari..I ada selang2 pakai CD tu..(kang tak pakai mau kne bising ngn hubby)..mane pegi cita2 nk selamatkan bumi nih..kelaut..huhu..

Skarang Aniq dh nak masuk 3bln..pakai MamyPoko lagi ke?..mahal kot..

Mommy aniq mmg kayo kalau bg aniq pakai MamyPoko jer..hehe..awal2 lahir takpe..kesian kot kalau ada rashes kt buntut..skang dh besar..try la brand murah sket..seb baik la kulit anak I kulit kental..alhamdulillah ok je since I pakaikan diapers brand PetPet..80 pieces RM31..jimat seii..kalo aniq poo poo selalu pn okey aje..hehe..yela,cer pikir..kalau ngn MamyPoko aniq poo poo pn I kne tuka diaper dier gak..takkan nk perap kn..2 keping PetPet equal sekeping MamyPoko..sgt jimat..nk bg taknak rashes..rahsia nya tukar selalu je..pakai mahal mane pn mau merah kulit buntut kalo tak tukar kn.. :)

Baik lah..itu saje tips yg I ada..hopefully dpt membantu ^_^

Last but not least...

Hero mesti keluar last.. ~_^

Seminggu Lagi..duhh

Okay..mode malas

lagi seminggu nk start keje

pling sedih nk tngglkn aniq ngn pengasuh

1st time berenggang since lahir tau..

(tp yg pling sedih..tak bleh bgun lmbt lg..uhuk T_T)

ati..grow up,pls!..ibu aniq dh kot.. :p

dh siap iron bju utk sebulan..gigih kau!

Jadual Ibu Kembali Bekerja

Nih adalah jadual optimum utk ibu bekerja yang merancang utk memberi baby nyer susu ibu sahaja :

• Bangun pagi awal 30 minit dari biase..huarghh..so,kalau sebelum ader baby i bgun pkul 6.30..skang dh kne bgun pkul 6..caiyuk2 ati! ^_~

• 6.30 dah boleh mula bersiap mandi, solat, pkai baju dan mandikan aniq. Pastikan beg baju dan barang aniq yang lain dh disiapkan mlm sebelum tido.

• Jangan skip bekpes..tapi kalau jadual class lmbat, bleh bekpes kt opis je ;)

• Pukul 7.15, cuba susukan aniq sekali lagi sebelum hantar dia kt umah pengasuh..mungkin dia menolak sbb dh kenyang pada sesi pertama tadi..tapi tak salah kalau cuba kn

• Di opis, pam susu pada pertengahan pagi..dalam pukul10..ambil masa dlm 20-30 minit setiap kali pam. Sambil pam sambil mkn bekpest pon bleh kot..huhh

• Lunch hour leh sambung pam lagi..kalau berkesempatan, leh balik jumpa aniq dan bagi direct jer susu terus..lagi senang...tp tu kalo sempat la..kalau jadual pack, nk makan pn xsempat kenkadang..

• Pam sekali lagi antara waktu tghari ke ptg sebelum pulang..

• Pulang dan ambil aniq, terus bagi susu 

• Ambil dinner yang berkhasiat

• Luangkan masa yang lebih di malam hari dan susu kan aniq sekerap mungkin. Masuk tido awal adalah cara terbaik untuk merapatkan hubungan yang 'termiss' waktu siang td.  

Semoga jadual waktu harian nih dpt bantu saya dan ibu-ibu bekerja yang lain menjalani hidup seharian dengan lebih efisien..insyallah :)

Storing Breastmilk

Store milk in single serving to avoid wastage by following the average milk intake by age..

• birth to two months: 2-5 ounces per feeding
• two to four months: 4-6 ounces per feeding
• four to six months: 5-7 ounces per feeding

If you plan to use the milk within 8 days, don't freeze it. If you do plan to freeze it, do so within 24-48 hours of expressing it.  The sooner you freeze it, the better. 

You can pump directly into refrigerated milk as long as you add the milk within 24 hours of when the original milk was expressed.  If milk has been stored at room temperature, you can pump directly into it as long as you do it within eight-ten hours.  You then need to use the milk as soon as possible.

Because human milk is a living substance, its antibacterial properties help it stay fresh longer than formula.  

How long you can store it depends on the temperature.. 

• Freshly expressed milk can be stored at room temperature for up to ten hours.  Colostrum or milk expressed within one week of delivery can be stored for twelve hours at room temperature.  However, whenever possible, milk should be placed in the refrigerator soon after expressing.
• Fresh milk can be stored in a cooler with icepacks for up to 24 hours.
• Fresh milk can be placed in a freezer compartment inside a fridge for up to 2 weeks. (These are usually only found in older type refrigerators). 
• Fresh milk can be kept in a self-contained freezer compartment for 3-6 months, depending on how often the door is opened.  Store it toward the back.
• Fresh milk can be stored in a separate chest type deep freeze for 6-12 months. 
• Milk that has been frozen and thawed can be kept in the fridge for 24 hours. Thawed milk should not be refrozen.

With all these guidelines, remember that fresh milk which has been stored at room temperature or in a cooler before being placed in the fridge or freezer may not keep as long.  That's why you should always place milk in 

the fridge as soon as possible after expressing it.

milk stocks for baby aniq..nyum~

more info from here

Breastfeeding Basic- Latching On

As the baby sucks, u should be able to see the jaw and ears moving and hear swallowing. If u can hear smacking sounds or the baby's cheeks are drawing in,he is not latched on properly..

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1. Hold your baby close to you, tummy against yours and nose opposite your nipple. Make sure the baby is completely on his side, with head, shoulders and back forming a straight line

2. Support your breast with your fingers, keeping them clear of the areola. Your baby may open his mouth and reach towards the nipple. If not, brush the baby's lower lips or his cheeks with your nipple

3. As the baby's mouth open very wide, gently draw the shoulders towards you so that the baby can take the nipple and as much as possible of the areola into the mouth.

The gums should close well clear of the nipple. If you feel discomfort for more than a few seconds, wet your little finger and slip it into the side of baby's mouth to release the suction. Take the baby off the breast, then try again.

What Not To Do..

• Don't put your hand behind the baby's head and pull it towards you. The baby will arch away.
• Don't position your nipple opposite the baby's mouth. Make sure that it is in the line with the nose, or the baby won't be able to draw it deeply enough into the mouth
• Don't press on your breast to make an airspace for the baby's nose - you could cause a blockage in a milk duct or move the nipple out of position. If the nose is squashed, try moving the baby's bottom closer to your body to create space.
• Don't continue if you feel pain that lasts more than a few seconds. Take the baby off and start again

ABC for Birthday Boy

This year..on your 26th birthday

No romantic candle light dinner for two

No surprise birthday party with friends

No expensive gadgets as birthday gift

No nice vacation on a cruise

No fancy birthday card

No new golf set

..wish i cud give u all my dear..but I've no money lorr T_T

just home baked chocolate cake..

cos mum says the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.. ~_^

and i named it as ABC..

A for Alan

B for Birthday

C for Cake

Alan's Birthday Cake :)

family...is priceless